Book Review: The Life Model: Living from the Heart Jesus Gave You by James Friesen, E. James Wilder, Anne Bierling, Rick Koepcke, and Maribeth Poole
The Life Model: Living from the Heart Jesus Gave You is not just a book—it is a framework for healing, discipleship, and community formation that fuses the fields of neuroscience, theology, trauma recovery, and spiritual maturity into a single, relationally vibrant vision. Written by a team of clinicians, counselors, and pastoral leaders, the book presents a compelling case for reimagining spiritual growth as deeply relational and rooted in joy-based connection. This book is not only theological in nature but intensely practical, challenging standard discipleship models and offering a roadmap for helping people grow from emotional infancy to spiritual maturity. At the heart of the book is the idea that every believer is designed to live from “the heart Jesus gave you”—a heart formed by joyful attachment, secure identity, and emotional resilience. However, most people, even within the Church, live from a “false heart,” one formed by trauma, shame, or relational neglect. The Life Mo...